Orin Voorheis accompanies Kyler Francom to collect fast offerings on a recent Sunday afternoon. Photo courtesy of Chartina Voorheis.Wendy Clark, a ward member whose son grew up with Orin, said she and others wondered if Chartina realized what she was getting into when she married Orin, but has come to see her as an angel.
Orin and Chartina Voorheis practice sign language. More than 20 years after being shot in the head on his mission, Voorheis is living a happy life surrounded by family and friends. Photo by Trent Toone, Deseret News.
During their morning hour of greeting, a woman approached the couple and asked if she could take a photo with Orin. She explained that nine years earlier she had come to the D.I. with her son who was then dealing with some personal challenges. Orin Voorheis welcomed the family. His upbeat friendliness lifted the 12-year-old boys spirits and left a positive lasting impression.Nearly a decade later, the woman thanked Voorheis and walked away eager to tell her now 21-year-old son about their encounter.Dixie Oveson, President Ovesons wife, remembers the doctors grim prognosis when they were told the bullet went through Voorheiss brain stem. Hes not going to live through this, and you probably wouldnt want him to, she recalled. But that wasnt the prognosis the Lord had impressed upon my husband. His survival has resulted in many blessings for many lives, she said.Orin and ChartinaAlready ministering
Orin Voorheis and his father like to go for rides in a Polaris. More than 20 years after being shot in the head on his mission, Voorheis is living a happy life surrounded by family and friends. Photo courtesy of Chartina Voorheis. Chartina Voorheis greets her husband, Orin, after she returned home from work in Pleasant Grove, Utah, on Tuesday, July 10, 2018. Photo by Spenser Heaps, Deseret NewsHeavenly Father is very kind to us. We are super blessed, she said. We see tender mercies every day in big ways and small ways. A lot of it comes through other people.Mindy Stailey, who met Orin Voorheis for the first time in February, was impressed by his happy disposition and felt the most incredible feeling in his home, she said.Oveson hopes people look at Orin Voorheis and see unwavering faith in the Lords plan for His children, as well as the power of family and positive thinking.In response to the kindness shown to them, the Voorheises look for ways to give back. Whether its cookies, muffins, flowers, or a humorous birthday card, Orin Voorheis loves to make people happy, his wife said.In the desperate moments that followed, Barry cradled his companions head in his lap and gave him a simple priesthood blessing that proved to be prophetic. He blessed Voorheis that he would live, marry in the temple, and still receive all previously promised blessings.Described by many as a big tease and prankster, Voorheis is still going strong thanks in part to many friends and neighbors who volunteer time each day to help with his physical therapy and other needs. Those who serve him often come away feeling grateful and uplifted by his positive attitude.Friends, family, and fellow Latter-day Saints in the Pleasant Grove community have ministered to the Voorheis family for the last two decades.Chartina Jarrett didnt know Orin Voorheis before his mission, but shes been at his side for nearly all of the 21 years since.
Orin Voorheis takes a rake to work in the garden. More than 20 years after being shot in the head on his mission, Voorheis is living a happy life surrounded by family and friends. Photo courtesy of Chartina Voorheis. A painting of some horses by Orin Voorheis. More than 20 years after being shot in the head on his mission, Voorheis is living a happy life surrounded by family and friends. Photo by Trent Toone, Deseret News.We had no idea. We were just out in public, doing our thing. Perhaps if we had decided to stay home and not get out, it wouldnt have happened, Chartina Voorheis said. Sometimes we can bless people in ways we dont know.Now happily married more than 15 years later, Chartina Voorheis takes care of Orin while teaching U.S. history and advising the student government at Lone Peak High School, where the two often supervise at dances, sporting events, and other activities.The couple married in the Manti Utah Temple on December 26, 2002. The sealing ceremony was performed by his mission president, Stephen B. Oveson, who also served as a General Authority Seventy for six years before he died in 2013.Speaking of handshakes, one way Voorheis likes to tease people and demonstrate his strength is by holding a persons hand until they say please. He does the same with hugs. Much to Chartinas dismay, Orin once held a General Authoritys hand for an uncomfortable amount of time in the temple until the leader finally said please, she said.
Carol Harding helps Orin Voorheis paint a watercolor painting of his parents. Harding holds his arm up and shows him where to paint, but Voorheis makes the strokes and chooses the colors he wants to use in his paintings. His wife, Chartina Voorheis (at left), watches as he paints. Photo by Stuart Johnson, Deseret News.
Chartina Jarrett was attending Brigham Young University at the time while her aunt was part of the Voorheiss ward. Chartinas aunt suggested she help the recovering missionary.If he can go out and have that happen to him and still be a faithful member that goes every week and has one of the strongest testimonies of anyone I know, then that bears witness to me that a mission, no matter how it ends, can still give you a really strong testimony, Francom said. Orin Voorheis still paints with his art teacher and friend, Carol Harding. More than 20 years after being shot in the head on his mission, Voorheis is living a happy life surrounded by family and friends. Photo courtesy of Chartina Voorheis.Scott Fugal, the Voorheiss bishop, said people sign up the first time out of sense of duty. They go back because they love being there.When asked if what happened to Voorheis on his mission affected Francoms decision to serve, the teenager said it actually made him more eager to go. Orin Voorheis waters plants outside his home in Pleasant Grove, Utah, on Tuesday, July 10, 2018. Photo by Spenser Heaps, Deseret News.Sporting a white shirt, tie, and name tag, Orin Vooheis sat in his electronic wheelchair smiling at people as they entered the American Fork Deseret Industries on July 11. As always, his wife, Chartina, was by his side.Hes always trying to make a connection with people, Bishop Fugal said. He shook every one of their hands, joked with them, smiled, and laughed with them. Those kids have remembered that all year.Although the anniversary comes and goes each April without much fanfare, it serves to remind family members how grateful they are to have Orin and appreciate all hes accomplished, said his mother, Florence Voorheis.I knew pretty early on that I would marry him someday, sometime within the first month, said Chartina Voorheis, who served a mission in Russia. I could just tell hes amazing, resilient, and fabulous.Over the next five years, Orin and Chartina developed a special bond and fell in love.Orin Voorheis now serves as an adviser to the young men of his ward. He faithfully shows up to activities and regularly helps 15-year-old Kyler Francom with his fast offering route. Its something Francom looks forward to each month.She can see the long-term, eternal perspective, Clark said. She saw him as who he was and fell in love with the Orin thats in there. Shes amazing. Orin Voorheis rests his hand on that of his wife, Chartina, at their home in Pleasant Grove, Utah, on Tuesday, July 10, 2018. Orin A. Voorheis with his parents, Wayne and Florence, just before leaving for Argentina for an LDS mission. He was later shot in the head while serving in Buenos Aires. Photo by Stuart Johnson, Deseret News.
Orin Voorheis with family members at the Jordan River Utah Temple open house. More than 20 years after being shot in the head on his mission, Voorheis is living a happy life surrounded by family and friends. Photo courtesy of Chartina Voorheis.
We are just normal people with a unique situation. Orin has challenges and could be so mad at the world, but hes not, Chartina Voorheis said. Hes never been bitter about it, never wanted to trade places with anyone, never been angry at the guy who shot him. Its just part of life.On the evening of April 9, 1997, Elder Armondo Barry and his companion, Elder Orin Voorheis, were serving together as missionaries for The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints in the Argentina Buenos Aires South Mission. Walking home under a drizzling rain, the two young elders were within a block of their apartment when three figures emerged from the shadows. One thief demanded Barrys money while the other twoone with a knife and the other holding a gun grabbed at Voorheiss backpack. Barry heard the gunshot and saw his companion fall to the ground. Chartina Jarrett holds the hand of her then fiancee Orin Voorheis at his home in Pleasant Grove Monday, December 9, 2002. Jarrett became acquainted with Voorheis after volunteering her time to help in his rehabilitation. Voorheis proposed to her using hand signals and sign language. The two were married in the Manti Utah Temple on December 26, 2002. Photo by Jason Olson, Deseret NewsIt started near the end of 1997 when Orin Voorheis came home. People donated materials and labor for a home renovation project that catered to his special needs. Since then, each ward in his stake has taken a monthly turn signing up to help with his physical therapy for two hours a day while his wife is at school. Orin Vooheis with his friend Addie McClure, the daughter of one his aides. More than 20 years after being shot in the head on his mission, Voorheis is living a happy life surrounded by family and friends. Photo courtesy of Chartina Voorheis.Another time, Brandon Edgecomb, who worked as an aide to Voorheis and became a friend for life, decided he was going to pull his hand away without saying the magic word. Elder Orin Voorheis and his new companion, Elder Shumway, with former Argentina Buenos Aires South Mission President Stephen B. Oveson and his wife, Sister Dixie Oveson. Photo courtesy of Dixie Oveson.It was honestly a true introspection for me, Stailey said. He helped me to see what is really important. I can be so thankful for so many things that I take for granted. Beauty is all around us, and happiness is always available to anyone in any circumstance. I cant wait to visit with Orin again.We know the anniversary. It isnt anything special, she said. But hes a special part of our lives and hes special to a lot of different people.
Orin Vooheis holds a baby. His wife, Chartina Voorheis, says her husband loves to hold babies. More than 20 years after being shot in the head on his mission, Voorheis is living a happy life surrounded by family and friends. Photo courtesy of Chartina Voorheis.
Today Orin Voorheis has some upper body control and spends most of his time in a wheelchair. The bullet affected his motor functions but he can still see, hear, and understand people. Orin Voorheis works as a greeter at the Deseret Industries in American Fork, Utah, on Wednesday, July 11, 2018. Photo by Spenser Heaps, Deseret News.
About five minutes later I had to admit that I was not as strong as him. I had to ask for permission to get my hand back, Edgecomb said. He has a super strong handshake. Everybody knows that Orin can beat you in an arm wrestle.Bishop Fugal, a seminary teacher, once took 17 students to meet the Voorheises and said it was one of the highlights of the year.He lives a beautiful, wonderful life that he finds a lot of joy in, Edgecomb said. Orin has had some circumstances in his life that would seem to dictate a life of sadness or a life that most people would say wouldnt offer much joy. But he is such a positive, happy guy. Its a huge example to me that we dont have to choose to let the things that happen to us define us.Clark agrees.PLEASANT GROVE, UTAHWith his parents helping him to get down on his knee, Orin Voorheis finger-spelled Will you marry, then pointed to himself and her to indicate you and me. She accepted.He inspires me, Francom said. He teaches me without words how to live life. Hes always happy. Ive never seen him sad. No matter what you do he makes it fun. After you serve him, he usually tries to do his best to serve you.Only a few months after he was flown from Argentina to Utah on Jon Huntsman Sr.s private jet, Orin Voorheis was moved to Provo for physical therapy and rehabilitation.Despite low expectations that he would survive the shooting, its all come to pass. Voorheis is still here, more than 21 years later, living a quiet, happy life with his wife and family in his hometown.Unwavering faithBecause of his experiences, Edgecomb is considering a career in the medical field. He says Voorheis has taught him a great deal about the joy that comes from service.After returning to Utah in April 1997, Orins mother requested that he be permitted to continue wearing his missionary name tag because many people pray for the missionaries and she hoped those prayers would help her son. He was released in November 2002 so he could get married, Chartina Voorheis said.She does her best to accommodate his loves: sci-fi/fantasy audiobooks, listening to his scriptures in Spanish, artwork, classic rock, gardening, motorcycles, going for rides, and holding babies. He has earned the nickname Uncle Cookie for spoiling his many nephews and nieces with treats, and he draws pleasure from handing out fruit snacks to other children who come to visit. One of the Voorheiss favorite activities is going to the Mount Timpanogos Temple each Thursday afternoon to do sealings.I come away feeling Ive been served, Clark said. He does so much more for my soul. I always feel better after Ive been with him. I see the world differently. I feel differently about myself, my life, and my problems. I see how he handles his situation with a big smile on his face, and I know I get more out of it than he does.Whether its struggling to communicate with her husband, getting his equipment to work, or waking up in the night to find him choking on his mouth guard, Chartina Voorheis is quick to acknowledge divine help, answered prayers, and many helping hands. She is happy and has no regrets.Its incredible. A lot of people in wheelchairs dont live very long. Their lungs have a hard time because they dont get the exercise they need. Its kept him alive. It really has helped immensely, said Chartina Voorheis, Orins wife. Hes quite a guy. It shows that everybody has a reason to be here.While some may feel a little timid at first, all come away with a new friend and a better outlook on life.I think it all depends on your outlook, your attitude, and which way you turn when you feel like the disasters of life are closing in, Oveson said. You can become bitter, questioning, doubtful, or you can turn to the Lord and let Him help you through it.You realize just how special those two are, and you want to be around them, Bishop Fugal said. Its been a unifying thing for our ward and stake to be able to serve him. You realize its not for him, its more for us.Orin Voorheis has been a blessing in many lives, thanks to his survival 21 years ago.His parents idea was to go to Argentina and pick up their dead son. Thats what they were expecting to do. He wasnt expected to live by pretty much anyone, Barry said. But everything in that blessing has come true. Orin Voorheis, with his wife, Chartina Voorheis, by his side, works as a greeter at the Deseret Industries in American Fork, Utah, on Wednesday, July 11, 2018. Photo by Spenser Heaps, Deseret News.